Cheese, Queso and Weird Smiles

You know how people say, Cheese!” when they are posing for a picture? Well, I think something was lost in the translation. My sister-in-law went to Mexico with her husband to visit his family. As everyone posed for a picture, they exclaimed, “Queso!” That’s Spanish for “cheese.” Makes sense right? The problem is that when … Read more

How to Handle Criticism

man yelling criticism at a woman through a bullhorn

Sometimes criticism hurts. Wouldn’t it be nice if we could just let it go and not bother us? Just let it roll off like water off a duck’s back. Sometimes criticism stings, sometimes it doesn’t. What’s the difference? And how can we shift something inside us so it doesn’t hurt so bad? I was reading … Read more

Can You Be Too Humble?

Man holding a sign that says , "I'm humble"

Being humble is a good thing, right? But maybe it’s possible to be too humble. Let’s look at how we may be accidentally having a negative impact on other people when we are trying to be humble. In a previous blog, I talked about how to graciously accept praise. I talked just briefly about how … Read more

The Other Perspective

child behind bars

Sometimes it’s helpful to see things from the other person’s perspective. It’s easy to think that our way of seeing things is the way it is. But another perspective can be valid and helpful. When we can see another person’s point of view, it is easier to understand why they say and do what they … Read more