All Goals Aren’t Equal

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There are different kinds of goals we can set for our life. These are: ‘having’ goals, ‘doing’ goals, and ‘being’ goals. It is important to recognize these types of goals because satisfying a bunch of one type of goal doesn’t give us everything we really need out of life. Let’s talk about it. The most … Read more

Fight for the Right Stuff

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Are you fighting for the right stuff in your life? Because of my blindness, I have had to learn to discern what’s important and what’s not. I have to regularly choose what’s the right stuff to put my time and effort into. It really does take effort to choose the right stuff because a lot … Read more

Tough Bikers and Fierce Love

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When you think of bikers, you probably don’t think of fierce and protective love. Last week I sat through a presentation by Bikers Against Child Abuse (BACA). It was phenomenal. It really got me thinking about letting our passions guide our efforts to have a positive impact. BACA gets involved when a child has been … Read more

Non-verbal Communication

I heard a statistic recently that 95% of our thoughts are subconscious and 93% of our communication is non-verbal. That means that 90% or more of our messages are communicated from our subconscious. Let’s talk about it. You may not believe the numbers that were cited. That’s okay. The concept here is that much of … Read more

Something Missing

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Before I had my heart attack in 2005, I frequently had this sense that something was missing from my life. I couldn’t quite figure out what it was. It was confusing because at church we would hear that when you have a sense that something is missing, it’s God that we’re missing. But I had … Read more

Special Offer: Something Beautiful

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When you look in the mirror, do you see something beautiful? I was talking to someone the other day. I was asking them if they thought they were making the impact with their life that they wanted. They said, “Yes! I’m so blessed, I get to make a difference in people’s lives because I help … Read more

Visualize How It Will Feel

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Take a moment to visualize how it will feel when you are making your own unique positive impact in the world. When we are able to really visualize what we want and experience the related emotions, we can get excited about how awesome it’s going to be. It may feel a little awkward at first … Read more

Love and Understanding

Love and understanding are some really basic human needs. That’s how I summarize our need to be seen, heard, understood, accepted, and loved. When we recognize this need that drives so much human behavior, we will understand ourselves and others better. This understanding can guide our choices and make things better for us and the … Read more

The Anatomy of a Blog

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Writing a blog can be a great way to share ideas and to make a positive difference in the lives of other people. Just for fun, I thought I’d “pull back the curtains” and give you a peek at what it takes for us to write and share our blog at Simply Great Lives. There … Read more

The Right Answer

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For a whole lot of years I was concerned primarily that we all arrived at the right answer. I would find myself often correcting, debating and arguing with people. This was all in the name of a commitment to the truth. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? Let’s talk about it. Commitment … Read more