Our Peeps: A Positive Influence?

Friends

We need to have people in our lives that are a positive influence. Our peeps–the people we hang around, not chick-shaped marshmallows–effect us in many different ways. They will often either help us or hinder us in living our calling. Take some time today to evaluate the people you spend time with. Following is a … Read more

Start

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“Someday, I’ll …,” is a phrase I hear a lot. Heck, I’ve said this myself on many occasion. But I’ve learned that when it comes to pursuing our calling, ‘someday’ will never get here. The best thing for our calling is to just start. Little Worrier The trouble is that the little worrier in our … Read more

Don’t Eat the Marshmallow

Marshmallows

A study was done in the 1960’s on kids. They called it the marshmallow experiment. You may have heard of this experiment. They gave kids a marshmallow and told them that if they could wait until the researcher came back, they could have another marshmallow. Even though I titled this, “Don’t Eat the Marshmallow,” the … Read more

Small Choices Make Big Change

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When we make a shift in our life to live our calling, it will usually require change. We will need to change how we spend our time, our energy and our money. Sometimes these changes can seem big and overwhelming. So, we don’t do anything, staying where we are. We don’t realize that small choices … Read more

10 Ways to Get More Money

Having money provides more options for living are calling. Of course, having a higher-paying job helps a lot. Following are some other tips for having more money and, therefore, more options and living your calling. Use some good, old-fashioned money management techniques 1. Use a zero-based written monthly spending plan. 2. Use cash envelopes for … Read more

10 Ways to Get More Energy

  It is possible to have energy to focus on our calling. Here are a few tips. 1. Sped time with positive people. Positive energy is contagious. Hang out with people who build you up and see what’s good in life. 2. Limit your exposure to negative people. Some people can suck the life out … Read more

10 Ways to Get More Time

We have found that time, energy and money are essential components of living our calling. This week we’re looking at how to get more of these three precious resources in our lives. Today, let’s look at how we can have more time to discover our purpose and live our legacy. 1. Use time blocking. Time … Read more

Eroding Goals

Off Target

We are continuing our theme for the week on systems thinking. Today I’m going to talk about a specific system pattern called “Eroding Goals.” Eroding goals is when we face a challenge to meet our goals or standards (such as quality of service), then we lower the goals or standards rather than wrestling to meet … Read more

Shifting the Burden

I’ve written about systems thinking before. You can read a brief introduction to systems here or a more in depth introduction here. Today I’m going to talk about a specific pattern in systems called “Shifting the Burden.” It is helpful to understand our place within the systems in which we interact. Otherwise we may end … Read more